Did this ever happen to you? Did you ever get your feelings hurt when singing? I know I did!

Here’s how to deal with that — my thoughts and feelings about this situation:

  1. We all have emotions and old stored patterns that, if not recognized and dissolved, will come out in a moment of tiredness, weakness, anger, or sadness, or any slew of circumstances. You can dissolve those with the help of a healing voice expert. I’ve helped hundreds of clients gain greater health, freedom, self-confidence, lightness, and happiness these many years. Also, remember, whoever expresses negative sentiments towards you, or anyone: be aware that it’s THEIR space they’re coming from. It may or may not have anything to do with you.
  2. You have a voice! Yay! You may even hum a tune! Yay! Put your attention on what’s good about you, your talents, your life, your circumstances, your talents, and also what’s good about any other people in your life. Can you learn something from them? Are they people you want in your life? Why? If not, how can you move away from those people with grace?
  3. We all have a voice! It’s actually our inborn instrument, and we all have it. However, most of us were not taught how to use it as the healing instrument it is. (Most of us use only 20% of our voice and breath in daily life! 20%! That’s CRAZY!) Your voice is healing, because a) when we sing properly we use our full lung capacity, which strengthens our immune system and increases endorphins, which makes us happy. And b) when we do it right, we use all the tones and frequencies in our range to enliven different parts of our body, instead of just using the small range we use when speaking. Creating that kind of flow and vibration improves our health, happiness, and energy.

So: Kudos to you, and anyone who is actively pursuing healing and expanding your voice. Is there room for progress? You betcha. I’ve been singing and teaching opera and classical singing for 25 years now, and I learn more every day.

Hope this helps you. You’re awesome, perfect the way you are, — and now continue from there for even greater happiness, health and accomplishment! 🙂